Thursday, 10/5: On this our last day on El Camino, we leave O Pino on a foggy morning. We decided to take the recommendation of the innkeeper and use El Camino instead of an alternate bike path being offered by Google maps.
Joining hundreds of pilgrims making their way on their final day on El Camino was a fitting way to conclude our journey, reminding us that we truly do not walk alone in our life’s journey.
Taking our last picture in front of a waypoint, a German pilgrim took it for us.

The distance was 24 km and the terrain was manageable compared to what we’ve encountered in different stages. Just as in life throughout this journey we have charted our course, facing peaks and valleys, headwinds and storms, and now as we near the end we have many small hills to climb and thereafter it’s all downhill. Along the way we encountered a musician playing the Galician bagpipes.



As we arrive at El Monte del Gozo, where pilgrims typically stop to rejoice in seeing the towers of the Cathedral and city skyline in the distance, the blanket of fog over the city of Santiago de Compostela was so dense that we could not see anything. At this point, with less than 10 km to go, our mission did not require visual confirmation as we continue to follow El Camino’s markers. If only the different journeys we embark upon in life could be so clear cut.
Upon entering the city, the enthusiasm was palpable as we approached the city waypoint sign.

And then it was all a whirlwind as we ride through the city: We head to the hotel to check our backpacks that we’d been carrying in the bike saddle bags and go to the drop-off point to return the bikes. As we sat down to have lunch, the waiter asked me how I was as he caught me taking a deep breath and stretching my neck. I realized I’d been tense with anticipation and now it was time to relax and relish reaching the destination we’d been cycling towards for the last 26 days.
After lunch we proceed to go to the Pilgrim’s Reception Office. There we scan a QR code to register the start date of our journey, our starting point and via what mode. We then wait in line with the other pilgrims.

When our number is called we individually walk up and submit our Pilgrim’s credential. This is a small booklet that we’ve been having “stamped” at every place we’ve stayed, or eaten, or visited along El Camino. Each location has a distinct stamp based on the city, town or village with their name. When they stamped our book they also wrote the date we were there. We actually had to pick up a second credential book so that we could finish collecting all our stamps.

The clerks review our credential and registration, and in a brief moment we are each walking out with our certificates in hand, one in Latin and the other in English.


As we walk out, we high five for the first time since arriving. We walk through the narrow cobblestone streets to the Plaza of the Cathedral and take in the full sight: pilgrims gathered in groups, hugging, smiling, some crying, all relieved to be basking in the moment of realizing their goal.
We proceed to explore the Cathedral museum, the Portico of Glory and the Towers from which we can see the old town surrounding the Cathedral.

Friday 10/6: We began our last day in Santiago de Compostela with a visit to the tomb of St. James, the first of Jesus’ apostles to die for his faith at the hands of King Herod in Jerusalem. The story of how St. James’ remains arrived in Santiago and how the pilgrimage to Santiago de Compostela began is over 800 years in the making. The Cathedral was consecrated in 1122 and is now the resting place for St. James’ remains.
Today we are able to walk through the crypt of the church where the reliquary is located. As we make our way under the altar we are then allowed to take the stairs behind the statue of St. James that is at the center of the altar and tradition holds that pilgrims may then “embrace” St. James. Now while we’re in line, I’m thinking that my husband is probably about ready to pivot to other activities: while he considers himself culturally Catholic, as a consequence of so many scandals involving the Catholic church as well as the politicization of the faith by some US bishops, he long ago opted for a spirituality independent of the religious theology and practice of the Catholic church.
As we arrive at our turn, I walk up first and offer my hand to my husband to join me, not knowing how he’d react. He looked at me sheepishly and as I nodded encouragingly I saw a look of vulnerability that I’ve only seen a few times in the 30 years of our relationship. He took my hand and we embraced as we each placed a hand on either side of St. James’ shoulders. As we bowed our heads, I said my prayer of thanks to God for blessing us with good health, the love of our marriage and our safe journey thus far. As my eyes watered, I squeezed Tom’s hand and we made way for the next pilgrim to approach.



Initially this journey was about keeping a promise. It has been a long time since we’ve had time and space to undertake an intense, difficult shared experience as a couple. The time and space to reflect, to struggle, to compromise, to achieve a difficult goal together yielded so many insights and validation. I believe we have been blessed by the promise of El Camino.